A Life Lesson From Golf.
I'm a golf fanatic. Well not like I used to be but I love the game and I've been trying to get my golf game to the point of being able to compete in my local amateur championship. I've been playing golf seriously for about 4 years and I am about a 12 handicap. Last year I practiced hard. In a week I would go to the range before work about 3 times and play at least one round. I showed vast improvements in my score for the first little while, but then my score dropped and was getting worse. I finally stopped playing for about a month. I couldn't even watch it on the T.V. (ask anyone who knows me how much golf I used to watch). All that practice and no improvement. I was set to give up.
When I started playing again it was towards the end of the season and I was left to go to the indoor practice range and stew all winter on my bad playing. When spring finally rolled around my friend and I again started our weekly round of golf. I had only beat him once or twice in the last three years. Something happened this year though. I started beating him on a fairly regular basis without trying nearly as hard as I used to.
We are now pretty close to even, meaning I now beat him about as much as he beats me (we're very competitive so that's a good thing).
What did I learn? I learned that even though while I was practicing so hard last year and didn't seem to be getting better, I actually was. I've realized, this year that I am no longer intimidated by the "hard holes" at the golf courses I play. I don't think about my swing as much now either because I spent so much time working on it last year that it just comes natural and I actually hit the ball with a good amount of consistency. And to think that I almost gave up.
So the moral of the story...
The next time I put a lot of effort into something (anything it doesn't really matter what), and I don't feel like I'm making any progress, I will step back and really check to make sure. Sometimes, because progress usually happens in small doses, we don't always notice it. Sort of like gaining or losing weight. One day you just look in the mirror and you suddenly notice the change.
The next time you're ready to give up, have a look in the mirror...or....go have a game of golf and reflect on your progress for a while.




